Hyomin tells you to diet if you want a boyfriend

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When I was watching Hyomin’s comeback MV, Nice Body, I suddenly had a lot of question marks in my mind. Is this really how a star should encourage her fans? Is this really the message a responsible role model should give out?

I know, the song was written by someone else, and she has a management company that decides on concepts. But she did perform this, and she did perform it with a seductive smile on her face.

The video of Nice Body is about … having a nice body. There is nothing wrong with having a nice body. We could argue if Hyomin has a nice body or is just way too unhealthily thin, but that is not the point of this writing. My essential problem is that this video, and the lyrics of the song, written by Brave Brothers – a man – tells young girls that men will only find them attractive, if they have a “nice body” like Hyomin.

The song and the video basically objectifies women, into pretty Barbie dolls, who exercise and endure pain to look good – not for their own satisfaction, or to be healthy – but to appeal to men, to experience what it is like when men appreciate their bodies. Note, the body, and not the personality.

Hyomin is not encouraging us women to eat healthy and exercise, just to be healthy and feel good. No. You have to do it for the sake of men turning their heads around when they see your sexy legs.

Any woman goes on a diet at least once
When you’re a woman, you of course want to receive love
Any man, as if they’re all the same, love pretty women
Every man thinks about sex at least once
If only they were thinking about me

This is wrong on so many levels. In a society like ours, where women are constantly under pressure if they gain weight, especially in Korea, it’s like giving fuel to fire when a popular singer starts advocating dieting for the pure purpose of looking beautiful. If you are not thin as a pole, you are ugly. This is the message I get out of this video and this song. It shatters the already damaged self-confidence of young girls who have body image problems. It makes you feel guilty for all the wrong reasons.

(I endure all the pains)
I’m going to be prettier
I’m going to love you more, I’m going to show you more of it
I will change, you will see

After showing this MV to a couple of my friends, one of them said: “But it’s true. Men don’t want you, if you are not thin. Men only like thin women”. Wrong! Just go and do a quick poll on your own SNS timeline, you will be surprised to find that while men might squeel over thin bodies like Hyomin’s while watching videos, essentially they like women who have some nice flesh on. Or they don’t particularly consider it important for their partners to be thin. The truth is, that all these skinny models you see in magazines and on TV, including skinny female K-pop stars, only truly appeal to women, who believe the skinnier the better. Men like curves more, according to polls.

I am not blaming Hyomin for this concept, but I do think that it is a concept her company should have thought about twice, before releasing in this format. Because this is not empowering women, but making them into objects men desire, and can transform into dolls with the click of a tongue, if they so like.

Sources: Lyrics translation – Kashigasa; Photo – Screencap


  1. sayruq

    July 8, 2014 at 1:37 pm

    I don’t know about anyone else but I chose to see the lyrics as mocking as in men (and some women) think people diet and try to be skinny so that they can get a boyfriend. The MV proves my point: When Hyomin steps on the scale in her dream, it reads “Nice Body” instead of any weight. This alludes to the fact that society always tells us that a Nice Body is determined by the number on a scale and usually that means being skinny. In reality, the number on a scale isn’t always the true determinate of what a perfect body is and Hyomin progressively aims to debunk that common belief…

    When Hyomin is transported to the dream world, every thing is filled with colors scanning the whole rainbow. Everything is filled with positivity and glamour until what seems to be a club scene. At 2:20, we can see Hyomin and her group of friends approaching black silhouettes. If you pause and look carefully, its actually her obese self…

    Contrary to what a lot of viewers are currently thinking, Hyomin does not in any way insult, mock or degrade obese people. The MV is more of a satire, telling us how the world is so obsessed with theappearance and the superficial aspects of a human’s body. The MV might seem shallow at first sight, but it actually isn’t at all.

    You can read the rest here: http://tiaradiadem.com/2014/07/review-hyomin-criticizes-societys-crazy-image-standards-a-deeper-look-into-hyomins-controversial-nice-body/

  2. Russ

    July 7, 2014 at 4:27 am

    This is something that has started applying to both sexes.
    If you’re a guy and you aren’t cut and have abs…forget it.
    And if you have a disability? You may as well be a walking corpse.
    Yes, we all have our fantasy types, but in the end it has very little to do with what someone looks like and a LOT to do with how well they mesh your who you are.

  3. Kim

    July 4, 2014 at 8:24 am

    I was shocked she kinda looked like Kris.. sorry, I don’t know her much and this is the first time I saw her and I’m just plain shocked she kinda looks like Kris. OMG

  4. DG

    July 1, 2014 at 7:24 pm

    I totally freaking agree on so many levels with your opinion.

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